L.O.V.E.

had a chit chat with dj, pg & bg abt love & r/s today.. we talked abt our past r/s, current love, trust, feelings.. realised dat love can be so fragile and no matter how much u wanna protect it, it takes just a second to break such a precious thg.. trust can be easily taken advantage of; feelings can be easily forgotten; promises can be easily broken; lust can be easily tempted..

there's actually a similar pattern that we analyse..

1. grew tired of A & met B
2. test water on B if he/she is interested (yes im saying it will happen to both guys & gals so guys pls dun get defensive k)
3. positive response from B
4. start planning by picking on A & saying bad stuff abt him/her to frens, so as to justify his/her future planned action - wh is to dump him/her lar (hey nobody wants to be seen as a bad guy/ gal rite..)
5. B says yes
6. finally declare that he/she cant stand A anymore & ask for breakup
7. watever happened next we dun really care.......

well the hurt caused will definitely be there but the time it lingers differs.. it doesn't take long to realise that the other party is just a bastard/ bitch & the sense of relief sets in, tinking "phew! luckily i see thru him/her even b4 we got married" and the curse is lifted! and this whole phase has to be accompanied by caring & supportive family (esp naggy mom or sister) and frens.. ain't they lovely? =)

of cos we shd not be affected by these stupid Bs cos they r not worth any of our precious youth time (in case u r wondering, Bs = bastards/ bitches).. quoting from dj: just treat every bad r/s as an experience to learn from.. and it's really true.. if not for the Bs, we will not learn our lesson and rem to choose our next love cautiously.. if not for the Bs, we will not hav the chance to meet another smone who deserves our precious love much more & will truly treasure this special r/s.. if not for the Bs, we will not realise that our family & frens actually love & care for us more than we tink..

this is specially dedicated to pg: cheers to all the Bs who crossed our paths cos we know the next one will definitely be better.. but if they come by again... f*@# off! =P